Worthless

 My life was saved, an aneurysm that was likely to kill me was going and repaired last month.

And I think WHY 

Not that I was wanting to die, especially without my "affairs" in order,  but Why Me this miracle of survival when I am so useless?

Kirk died 10 days ago. That has been hard on all of us.  I don't believe any two people grieve the same. 

I have been trying to help Kira thru hers and have felt like I was failing her every minute.  Then I got the day for her therapy appointment confused, thought it was tomorrow and she missed it. She screamed at me,  the worst part was her telling me that in not qualified or able to care for her properly.  That cur SO DEEPLY because it is so True. In not even capable of taking care of myself. I have 4 people I am responsible for and u am failing with ALL of them. Not just because u an unable. Kira had it right. I am INCAPABLE. 

I have to change everything. I have to remove myself from this situation. They all need proper lives I don't provide.

I have to get myself out of their lives oppo?,?×¥₩

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